PARENTING SKILLS

 "Children learn more from what you are than what you teach". -W.E.B DuBois.

• Parenting Skills

Parenting is an art, which is gifted by God to introduce an amazing human being to the world.

Children learn from you more so be the person your want your children to be.

Learning parenting skills is not so hard because every parent will surely love their kids for sure until or unless they compare or are disappointed with their abilities.

 Children are like clay in our hands, be careful to the sculptor.

• Improve your Childs Self Confiden

Every child is different from one another, Accept your child as he/she is and teach them to love themselves, Some kids lose confidence due to their looks, family background, education, etc.., If they start loving themselves, they won't wait for the attention of others to love them, self-love is important. Praise them and make sure to love and respect their flaws too.

 Children will surely make mistakes because they are experiencing life for the first time so, let them enjoy every bit of life with joy.

Don't force your dreams on them, let them know what they love. Putting pressure is also a very wrong way. They should enjoy their childhood. Remember Knowledge is important than percentages or grades. Know your child's interests and make sure you conveniently support them.

Your child should be confident and the confidence must come from your parenting, appreciate the little things they do, let them explore the things, as said marks or grades will not be same in every standard but being confident in oneself is very important for your child's future.

 Never force anything regarding family reputation, rather than explain what is the good way and bad way after knowing the good and bad your kid surely choose well.

 Educate your child that how to be confident not over nor less just being confident with the clarity of good and bad will surely shape your child into a better person with huge success.

 Never shout at your kids that will affect your kid's self-confidence. Rather than shouting at them sit and explain the situation. Be friendly and loving with little strictness. Parents will be the first teachers and friends, so be a best friend for your kids.

 Develop self-esteem in your kids, educate to help and share others, while training your child to do things ensure to help and show them first, let your child inspire from you be a good role model. Don't be too harsh, despite comparing from other focus on their strength and know their weakness and try to make them positive or teach to accept the flaws.

• Praise your Children

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The most productive approach is to capture kids being good, For example: If your kid is helping someone on his way from school appreciate them like you did an amazing thing helping others is a very good habit or You cleaned your books rack without my help that's tremendous or thank you for helping me in the garden you cleaned it very well. Such type of treatment for your kids will unquestionably improve their good behavior in a long run than repeated scolding.

Praise them with good words.

• Communicating with your Kid's

Make sure to communicate with your kids. As a kid they may have any doubts about any random thing so, be patient with your kid and try to answer them wisely, not just saying what comes out of mouth think, and answer them correctly.

 Pay attention when they say anything, ask if they loved the school or friends, or how was their day? Try to teach morals to your kids with good bedtime stories. Make a time-table and ask them to follow hence to teach a disciplined life.

 Share your interests and your school time stories so that they may inspire them in any way.

 Don't get irritated with the same questions they ask, answer them until they get the right answer!

 Train them to be grounded all the time.

• Show them your Unconditional Love

Parents only can give unconditional love to their children. Show them your love instead of shouting, blaming, criticizing, comparing make it clear that you need and await for betterment next time. They should have the confidence that no matter what your love will be constant.

Forgiveness in a relationship

 

Importance of forgiveness in Relationship

The ability of forgiveness is a unique quality to lead a peaceful life. Every relationship has its difficulties, if you want to hold your relationship tight then you should practice forgiving.

Forgiveness is the strongest weapon to protect any relationships, with this amazing weapon you can get inner peace so that you may get long-lasting relationships

We all are humans somewhere, someone may hurt you or you may hurt someone but, how long will you keep this grudge is a big question mark? Keeping grudges will lead to negative thoughts; it is unhealthy for any relationship.

Every human is not alike, every person is not the same as another person. So we should understand the fact that every person's perspective will not be the same as another in a relationship, before getting into a fight just be quiet and think from others' side so that you may get the answer.

Every relation should be truthful, genuine, understanding, and easy, If in any case, your partner is cheating on you it’s his/her wish to cheat not yours so, forgive him/her and move on maybe it is not that easy but still forgiving will remove your partner thoughts and you can move easily.

Relationships get delicate with the fights, grudges, negativity

How long will you keep all this, our brain and heart are not meant to be garbage, practice forgiving so that your partner also gets this amazing quality?

Understand your partners' feelings and do respect them, give them the space to keep their word, arguments will not give you a proper answer it always tries to prove one person right.

Don’t take every situation so seriously sometimes let things go.

Forgiving is not that easy in some cases and it will badly trouble your feeling, emotions, and destroys you completely but, before going through all this just calm yourself and ask yourself that how important is this to you is it just a matter of forgiveness or am I going through my ego for this? You will get the answer, and then decide which is better ego or forgiveness.

Your life is in your hands don’t ruin with egos and grudges, life is so short if we can’t keep all this negativity for so long you may lose valuable time in your life. So, just forgive.

When you keep all these things in mind you may become a negative and unhealthy person and slowly you become oversensitive.

Those who keep more grudges are the people who suffer more mentally. They even don't believe themselves.

Life is a beautiful gift given by God that should be written by us, the end of the day it's only you, so be happy and keep your partner in a happy zone.

Don't dig the past stories of your partner, just let all the old things and move on so that your partner should be more and more genuine to you.

When life hits you so hard there is no best medicine other than forgiveness it surely will heal your deep wounds, forgive people even if they don’t deserve it. Practicing forgiveness gives us inner strength.

Forgiving people will benefit those who forgive. It will improve your positivity

Analysis yourself that who hurt you and why and if it is your mistake go and immediately convey apology or if it is another person’s mistake just forgive them.

If anyone hurts you badly just remember how important are they in your life if it is not that necessary to ignore them and forgive, say to yourself that my mind is not meant to this kind of thing and let go of.

Forgive and make your life easy.